Have you seen a good woman lately? Yes they are everywhere but they are not easy to find. A man must not wait and expect that good woman to crawl down his father's house. No way! You must go out and find that "Good Woman"
The rate at which marriages/relationships collapse now is assuming a social symbol status in our society.
In few years time, people will be throwing divorce parties and invite friends and well-wishers to celebrate their divorce anniversaries; they will choose aso-ebi, hire a hall and popular musicians. Even a question like "So when are u getting divorced?" will become commonplace.
If you knows u can't handle the weight and pressures of marriage, please remain single.
If you doesn't know what marriage is all about, please remain single until u do.
If you are getting married because of the things u desire or hope to gain from the other person, or to satisfy your fantasies, please remain single.
If you knows you can't be faithful, remain single.
Don't get married out of desperation, because u think u are getting too old.
Don't just get married because of the pressures from your families. They are not the one getting married-you are!
You desire a successful home, but if your choice of friends are those whose marriages have collapsed. It is simple - they'll make u drink from their poisoned chalice. Once that happens, your marriage is in a process of dying a slow death. Be very mindful of where you go for advice.
Guys, if you knows you can't stay responsible please remain single until you mature. There's no way you can abandon the care of your family at the expense of your lifestyle. They are your priority and everything else including you comes last. You are the teacher, the guide, the bodyguard, the spiritual leader, the role model - you are not a deity. So don't expect to be worshipped. You need respect, earn it by being responsible.
Ladies, if you know you can't be submissive please don't go into marriage so they don't turn you to a punching bag! So disheartening how ladies turned a well looking gentle man to be a bully.
If you know you can't stand being corrected, please marry yourself. Don't throw your spinsterhood or bachelorhood away if you see respect as a big deal.
If you knows u can't handle the weight and pressures of marriage, please remain single.
If you doesn't know what marriage is all about, please remain single until u do.
If you are getting married because of the things u desire or hope to gain from the other person, or to satisfy your fantasies, please remain single.
If you knows you can't be faithful, remain single.
Don't get married out of desperation, because u think u are getting too old.
Don't just get married because of the pressures from your families. They are not the one getting married-you are!
You desire a successful home, but if your choice of friends are those whose marriages have collapsed. It is simple - they'll make u drink from their poisoned chalice. Once that happens, your marriage is in a process of dying a slow death. Be very mindful of where you go for advice.
Guys, if you knows you can't stay responsible please remain single until you mature. There's no way you can abandon the care of your family at the expense of your lifestyle. They are your priority and everything else including you comes last. You are the teacher, the guide, the bodyguard, the spiritual leader, the role model - you are not a deity. So don't expect to be worshipped. You need respect, earn it by being responsible.
Ladies, if you know you can't be submissive please don't go into marriage so they don't turn you to a punching bag! So disheartening how ladies turned a well looking gentle man to be a bully.
If you know you can't stand being corrected, please marry yourself. Don't throw your spinsterhood or bachelorhood away if you see respect as a big deal.
Even to the guys it’s better to remain in your bachelor Villa than to cause that innocent young lady to live a frustrated life with you. Isn't it amazing if we have to live our lives to the tune of one man or one woman and not jumping around to seek undesirable comfort?
Please check your domestic scorecard - if your score is zero, please stay in your parents' house!
Here Comes the Good Woman
"A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds. Her husband trusts her without reserve, and never has reason to regret it. Never spiteful, she treats him generously all her life long. She shops around for the best yarns and cottons, and enjoys knitting and sewing. She's like a trading ship that sails to faraway places and brings back exotic surprises. She's up before dawn, preparing breakfast for her family and organizing her day. She looks over a field and buys it, then, with money she's put aside, plants a garden.
First thing in the morning, she dresses for work, rolls up her sleeves, eager to get started. She senses the worth of her work, is in no hurry to call it quits for the day. She's skilled in the crafts of home and hearth, diligent in home making. She's quick to assist anyone in need, reaches out to help the poor.
She doesn't worry about her family when it snows; their winter clothes are all mended and ready to wear. She makes her own clothing, and dresses in colorful linens and silks. Her husband is greatly respected when he deliberates with the city fathers. She designs gowns and sells them, brings the sweaters she knits to the dress shops. Her clothes are well-made and elegant, and she always faces tomorrow with a smile.
When she speaks she has something worthwhile to say, and she always says it kindly. She keeps an eye on everyone in her household, and keeps them all busy and productive. Her children respect and bless her; her husband joins in with words of praise: "Many women have done wonderful things, but you've outclassed them all!" Charm can mislead and beauty soon fades. The woman to be admired and praised is the woman who lives in the Fear-of-GOD. Give her everything she deserves! Festoon her life with praises!"
Written by: Angela Uyi
She has written on the subject Of Personal Appraisal, Keeping Scores, Set your Gaze On Him, A Home For God, Healing Bruised Relationship, Self Realization Policy, And Self Esteem among others on her Blogger reader... Her site's main aim is to help people cork into their Identity, be who they want to be.
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