I don’t know what is bothering you right now but I would want you to read through this story of a man below:
Jonny drank too much at the party and embarrassed his wife Lillian. Next morning he felt bad and asked her to forgive him. She said she would, yet she kept bringing it up one day in discouragement he said “I thought you were going to forgive and forget. “She said I have, I just don’t want you to forget that I have forgiven and forgotten. Keeping scores only works in competitive sports, it’s disastrous in relationships. There is so much good in the worst of us and so much bad in the best of us, that we’ll spend much of our lives learning to forgive and forget. And forgetting is harder when the offence is great-small offence can be forgiven quickly; big ones required a healing process. But until you make the decision to forgive the process can’t even begin
I will start by saying no matter what your friends or colleagues, and people say about your loved one why don’t you look away from them because they will never say good things about them no encouraging words will come out of their boiling stomach. Do you know why? The reason is that they have seen in several avenues that you desire pleasure from him or her so they will always come with side talk. For you condemning your partner why don’t you focus on their worth? Not their weakness? You must turn your heart away from what was, to what can be. You say “you say why should I forgive and forget?
1. God’s words tell you to
2. You yourself will continue to need forgiveness
3. You were not built to carry the stress that goes with resentment.
You can’t afford to be burden by someone else’s hurts so the best way to free yourself from those shackles is to learn to forgive no matter the gravity of the offence big or small. Forgive with time; you will be able to forget. ''Aggression is the last resort for ignorant. In a tight quarrel find your faults and apologies for it swallow your pride and look for a broom when you find that broom sweep your house clean and bring that your partner who offended you back. ''
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