It happens every day. Its might be happening right now in your once happy relationship. Unrealistic expectations; infidelity and broken promises destroying the dream of life long love and trust. God is the healer of broken relationship and violated trust. When some you love is hurting you:
1. Give it time: healing is a process, not an event. Wounds of the heart heal slowly. Maybe you are thinking “But I have apologized over and over. How long will it take them to let it go and start trusting me again? Its takes as long as it takes! Demanding the other person to heal on your schedule only delays the process. But if they really forgive me they won’t keep bringing it up not so. When your loved one can bring it up without you getting upset, healing will happen faster
2. Don’t expect things to be normal for now. They won’t be and that is normal! Ever notice how you automatically protect an injured limb against knocks and bump? It’s a natural, instinctive retain. The fact is that the one who caused the pain maybe ready for business as usual, but for the wounded ‘normal’ feels ways too vulnerable right now. By lowering your expectation and giving them space, you will hasten and promote the healing process.
3. Remember people heal at different rates. There is a time for everything………….time to weep ……………………..a time to laugh………….a time to embrace…………………a time to refrain. Be sensitive, learn to be patience and growth as you give your love time to heal
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