WHAT ROLE DO U PLAY IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

THERE IS SOMETHING I SUPPOSE IS VERY VITAL FOR YOU TO KNOW ABOUT DATING AND RELATIONSHIP.
 Many things you need to know about women and why they are just the way they are either they makes a great partner or they leaves you heart broken…the first thing I would like to say is that if you are a woman who have been holding a relationship together with your own two bear hands for months or years of pains and headache while your man does all sort of ridiculous work and stupid stuffs again and again I feel for you.
Recently, I was at the salon and suddenly i  heard a lady who was retouching her hair shouting at the stylist for no just good reasons and everyone was trying to console her to take it gently with the stylist but she ignored our plea and began shouting at the salon owner who  intentionally ignored her naggings. The client has not finished with her hair, she asked the stylist to wash the hair that she was so disappointed in both her and the madam we all kept quite and watch the scenario. After she left, I asked the salon owner what was the problem, she confided in us that a guy just broke up with her a relationship that lasted 10 solid years. (You can call it gossip I don’t cares) I asked her what could go wrong she then said that this same lady has been the one nurturing the relationship, sponsor his education, shelter the guy, clothed the guy even feeding. I felt so sorry for her but there is nothing I could do to help the situation because she brought the plight upon herself. Or what do you think.
These kinds of situations are not good at all. I wish the best for her and who must have fall victim of such unpleasant happenings. And so you know…. A true goal of what I consider my purpose and life’s work is to share an experience and help those who want to learn from it to know the kind of love they really want. You can learn from others mistakes so you do not have to go through as much pain and frustration as you might have had in the past.
In away, I wish I could keep you from ever feeling that you have to do “the work” in your relationship ever again but here is the reality…
I do not choose the man you bring into your life for you and I do not choose the things that you choose to say or do and feel with a man.
One of the most important things I have learned in the years is this:-
If you don’t know when enough is enough…then you are destined to weigh in to your own misfortune.
How many girlfriends have you known who have been with guys who might have been “OK” people, but the guys just kept doing things to them over and over again?
Or how many girlfriend have you known who have been with guys and the guys kept on beating and bully them every now and then turning them to a punching bags again and again?
And you watched as each time things went wrong, the same series of behavior started again, only to end up precisely where it left off the last time with her telling herself he would change and they would be different.(The guys are guilty for sure)
You wished you could take your girlfriend out of this, but all u could do was support her and be a helping shoulder to cry on when the predictable bad cycle occurred again.
But let me ask you…
You might not realized it right now but odds are that if you have run a series of failed relationship… then you too have been guilty of both choosing the wrong choice…and trying to FIX or pick up a situation that was never yours to try and save in the first place
Men are “as it” items. Like a pair of shoes. If you buy a pair “as is”, you can’t bring them to the repair shop and expect everything to be taken care of and fixed. Sales are final. No returns. No repairs.
ATTENTION: Beware of the pair you choose.
Bravo!
So knowing that which role would you like to be in your relationship to the man you love?

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I am Angela Uyi aka Mama Naija|Two time Social Media Personality Winner| A smooth talker| Humanitaria| Ghost Writer| CopyWriter |Twitter:@Angelauyi |