My second breakthrough in life which is actually my first
was when I realized that I am all by myself. I am completely responsible to
myself and everything that happened to me. No one was going to do anything for
me I was responsible for everything that I need in life. I was just on my own. I was getting things
done by myself no matter the situation or limitations it was left to me how I
was going to find solution to it. I never have to be blaming anyone when I fail
in one thing or the other. I took responsibility for my mistakes and I also
look for ways to overcome them. Your acceptance of personal
responsibility for your life is the giant step from childhood to maturity. Have
a positive mentality-build I can do mentality within you-it will help you pass
through in life. Be a ‘goal giver’
the world has grown beyond the era of a ‘goal-getter’. I never blamed others for the hard
time I was going through then because I learnt that others are responsible for
20% of the things that befell me I am responsible for the remaining 80%. I
never saw myself as a primary creative force in my own life. For you to be able
to take total responsibility for yourself, you must first see yourself as a
victim. Thereafter, see yourself as a champion.
BE COURAGEOUS
“There can be no great courage where there is no confidence
or assurance, and halt the battle is in the conviction that we can do what we
undertake.” Courage, confidence, Integrity, truthfulness, reliability goes a
very long way. You must be courageous it help you face any limitations in life
as you journey alone to your designed destination. The journey of life is very
competitive so be ready to face it so you wouldn’t be left behind. There are
others who are also striving hard to be at the top. Just as Tuface Innocent
Idibia wrote: ‘’if it’s just me I will be
living my life like I don't care living
like nobody is around’’ you know the rest
of the song. You are living in a real world. Where Critics are always waiting
to see you fail, they will always to around you either to motivate or to
discourage you. You cannot get more than what you put into something that’s the
law of sowing and reaping. You will always get out what you put in whatever you
are doing if you invest so much into yourself you will work effortless in
achieving your goals. Everything will be at your reach.
Important Lesson: Not everyone is always going to like you, and that's
fine. If people want to spend time talking about you then that is their
problem. You are perfect as you are. You shouldn't need everyone to like you to
have some form of self-esteem.
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